Posted on: 26 October 2017
After so many years of being married to the same person and going through the same daily routine, things can become a little stale. If you don't do something to put some spice back into your marriage, you could be headed down a rocky road that is hard to climb back out of. If you feel the flame flicker, it's time to take action before it's too late. One thing that can help is getting out of the daily routine with your lover and taking at least a short vacation.
Find the Accommodations
There are so many different vacation rentals, hotels, B&Bs and resorts to consider, so how do you know which will offer you and your lover the type of experience that you need to spice things up again? Do you need to just relax on the beach, play a round of golf together, enjoy a couple's massage? These are the different services to look into – what would the two of you like to do together. The point of this trip is to get out of the norm and spend time with each other, so look for a place that has services that you will both enjoy.
Pick a Date
This can be more difficult than finding where you want to go, especially if you both have jobs. Being able to leave work at the same time for a few days is oftentimes the reason that so many couples don't get to go on these vacations. You and your lover will have to work together to make this work. If one of you is less cooperative or unable to rearrange a schedule, this will not work as it could actually cause more tension between the two of you. Even if you can only make the time to get away for a single night – do it – you won't be sorry.
Dress for Success
Do some shopping for new clothes, lingerie, swimwear – whatever makes you feel great while you're wearing it, then buy something for your lover. Choose something that you like but know that your lover will love! The key here is to find things that make both of you feel your best so that you have the utmost confidence while you are together during this little getaway.
Start working on making the plans for your trip. It can take some time to get through all of the details, but don't put it off too long – you never know how many tomorrows are left.Share